Lean Into Wellness

From Surviving to Thriving

Compassionate, LGBT Affirming, trauma-informed therapy for lasting healing and growth

Are you struggling with unresolved hurts and deep wounds? Trauma is all around us, and you deserve healing. As a gay man with over 19 years of experience working with diverse populations, I provide a safe, affirming space where we can work together to support understanding, compassion, healing and acceptance—addressing the barriers that keep you from thriving and living fully.

Schedule a Consultation About My Approach

Xander Gordon

Allow me to introduce myself

Xander Gordon

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW

I’m Xander Gordon (he/him), a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Master’s in Social Work from the University of Utah. With over 19 years of experience working with diverse populations, I believe that “connection is the healer” and offer therapy services primarily in person to foster that deeper therapeutic relationship.

Read More ⇾

My Therapeutic Approach

Evidence-based methods tailored to your needs

  • Cognitive & Behavioral

    Practical tools to identify and change thought patterns and behaviors that aren’t serving you.

  • Trauma-Informed Care

    Specialized methods designed to help you heal from traumatic experiences safely and effectively.

  • Mindfulness & Acceptance-Based

    Learn to observe your thoughts and feelings without judgment while building resilience and inner peace.

  • Attachment & Relationship-Focused

    Heal relationship patterns and build deeper, more secure connections with others.

  • Humanistic & Integrative

    Honor your unique story and innate wisdom while exploring all aspects of who you are.

Explore All Areas of Expertise

Take a deeper look at my areas of expertise to see how my specialized knowledge can address your unique situation. You'll find detailed explanations of each specialty, real examples of how therapy can help, and resources to help you understand your options.

Explore More

Services & Pricing

Making therapy accessible

I am in network for the listed plans, if you wish to use out of network benefits I can provide a superbill for reimbursement. It is important for you to contact your insurance company prior to starting therapy to determine copay/deductible/out of pocket. Don’t hesitate to reach out with questions

Accepted Insurance Plans:

  • University of Utah Health Plans
  • SelectHealth
  • Public Employees Health Program (PEHP)
  • BlueCross BlueShield

Have Questions?

Find Answers to Common Questions About Therapy

Getting Started

What can I expect in my first session?

Your first session will begin with an assessment phase where we'll discuss what brings you to therapy and your goals for treatment. I'll ask questions to better understand your experiences, but you're also encouraged to share what feels comfortable. We'll explore your history, current challenges, and begin building the secure therapeutic relationship that's essential for healing. Don't worry if it takes time to feel comfortable opening up – this is completely normal and expected.

How do I know if we're a good fit?

A good therapeutic fit involves feeling heard, understood, and safe with your therapist. I offer phone or video introductions so we can connect and explore your goals and challenges together. During our initial conversations, you should feel comfortable with my approach and sense that I understand your unique experiences. Trust your instincts – if something doesn't feel right, it's important to discuss this openly.

What if I'm not sure therapy is right for me?

It's completely normal to feel uncertain about starting therapy. Many people wonder if their problems are "big enough" or if they can handle things on their own. Therapy isn't just for crisis situations – it's a valuable tool for personal growth, understanding yourself better, and developing healthy coping strategies. I'm happy to have an introductory conversation to help you explore whether therapy feels like the right step for you at this time.

How long does therapy typically take?

The length of therapy varies greatly depending on your individual goals, the issues you're working on, and your personal circumstances. Some people find significant benefit in a few months, while others choose to engage in longer-term work. For trauma recovery, which is one of my specialties, healing often takes time and patience. We'll periodically discuss your progress and assess how you're improving, making any necessary adjustments to our treatment plan.

Do you offer telehealth sessions?

I primarily offer therapy services in person because I believe connection is the healer. However, I am available for telehealth sessions for unique circumstances or emergency needs. In-person sessions are generally preferred for building the strong therapeutic relationship that supports healing and growth.

How often will we meet?

Most clients benefit from weekly sessions, especially when beginning therapy or working through significant issues like trauma. As you progress, we might adjust the frequency based on your needs and goals. Consistency is important for building trust and maintaining therapeutic momentum.

Practical Information

What are your fees and do you accept insurance?

Prices -

Individual and couple sessions prices can be found by following the link below or submitting a contact form.

See Current Pricing 

Insurance -

I am in network for several insurance plans. If you wish to use out-of-network benefits, I can provide a superbill for reimbursement. It's important for you to contact your insurance company prior to starting therapy to determine your copay, deductible, and out-of-pocket costs. Please don't hesitate to reach out with questions about insurance coverage.

Rediscover yourself

Ready to Begin Your Journey?

Taking the first step is often the hardest part

Reach out

801-210-0146

Don’t be shy. Here are some tips:

1. Briefly explain who you are, and what brings you here?

2. What do you want (i.e. an initial consult or a question about fees or insurance)?

3. When are you available, and how best to reach you (phone, text or email)?

Get in Touch & Start Today